Saturday, January 18, 2014

Oh the weather outside is weather...

Today was the first day it was actually comfortable to be outside.  While the US has been suffering through a "Polar Vortex" (I'm still massively annoyed by that term.  It's not a hurricane or anything, why does it have to be named?), down here in Australia there's been a serious 5-day heat wave.  Back in KS, I've had summers with 100F days, but we had four days in row with temps reaching as high as 113F.  113 - do you have any idea how hot that feels?  Massively miserable... especially since the place I'm staying doesn't have air conditioning.

Fortunately (or maybe unfortunately depending on how you look at it), I'm inside at work during the hottest parts of the day.  And yes, there is air conditioning at work (thank God).  Still, it's been blazingly hot in the mornings and evenings, and today was the first break in the heat.  Looks like we'll be able to enjoy at least a week of comfortable temps.

Daily projected highs were about 100F but it surpassed 110F every single day!

During a heat wave, what is there to do to escape?  Go to the beach!  The beach was pretty busy in the evenings, and I had a blast with a few of the PhD students enjoying the cool water after work.  It's nuts - it's summer, so of course the sun sets later, but the sun is much more intense here than back home.  There is a SERIOUS hole in the ozone layer, so you don't just get a sunburn, you pretty much get instant skin cancer.  So when we get off work and hit the beach at 6pm, we're still lathering up with 50+SPF to enjoy the water.


That pelican was so cool

In other news, I enjoyed the Portarlington Mussel Festival last weekend with one of my co-PhDs.  They had a ton of booths set up with crafty things for sale, lots of ethnic food to try, and of course: mussels!!  I had coconut chili mussels - deeelish!  They were cooked up fresh off the boat.  The seafood has been a big part of why I was looking forward to living in Australia, so we can mark that one off the 'to-do' list!




The mussels tasted extra-delicious once we got them because there was a long wait before they were ready.  We decided to hasten the wait by enjoying pints of craft beer.  Hooray beer!



They had an old-masted ship at the dock as part of the festival - that was pretty dang cool too.  I kept calling it a pirate ship because, I mean, look at it - it looks like it needs a few pirates on board to make it complete.  All in all, a fun afternoon near the water.

Friday, January 3, 2014

Joey (2001-2014)

The holidays have come and gone, and I had a great time with Dad.  He arrived on Dec 16, and we spent a few days touring the Great Ocean Road and surrounding sights.  Christmas day was spent in Geelong with my host family, and then on Boxing day we headed to Melbourne on the train to have a few days in the city.  Dad's trip was busy and fun, and it was extremely hard to say goodbye to him when he flew home New Year's day.  I'll do a full post later with detail and photos, but today I want to talk about my dog back home.

Since Dad landed, on Dec 16, my dog (Joey) has been sick.  He first presented with lethargy, diarrhea, and shortness of breath.  They did chest rads and found fluid in his lungs.  Over the next month, he had fluid drawn off his lungs every few days, which seemed to make him more comfortable.  But the fluid kept accumulating, and he showed no signs of improvement after courses of antibiotics and diuretics.  Some of the fluid from his lungs was sent off to a lab for analysis, and results took a bit longer than expected due to the holidays.

Joey's illness has been very stressful because we didn't know exactly what was causing the problem.  I was worried it could be something that had a cure with a treatment plan and we just couldn't figure out what it was, but also concerned that it might be cancer (since he's an older dog).  It was also a very stressful time because Mom was at home on her own trying to help Joey, and Dad was out of the country.

Thankfully, two days after Dad landed back in the states, we finally received results that cancer was causing Joey's problems.  I was extremely sad to hear this news, but also slightly relieved, because it meant that we could make that hard decision with a clear conscience.  Joey was not improving, and fluid keep accumulating in his lungs making his breathing difficult.  On Jan 3, Joey was allowed to pass peacefully.

I am so heartbroken to lose Joey, and it's been exceptionally hard because I'm so far away.  I've been so lucky to be in email contact with a person from the clinic as well as receiving updates and photos from my family.  I know that Joey is at peace now, and hopefully I don't grieve too long.  Miss you lots, Joey.


                                                     Joey and Josh in 2004


                                Joey and Alyssa in 2005 - Joey always loved kids


                                                Hanging out with Joey in 2007


Joey on his favorite chair in 2007, though he preferred to sleep under it rather than on it.





Joey being handsome in 2007 and 2009



                                                  Joey and I in 2008 and 2009



We had a lot of great Christmases with Joey.  He wore the obligatory red bow in 2005 and 2007.


                                   With Conner and Joey on Christmas Eve 2007



                                       Joey's 2012 Christmas photo at Laura's house



Joey enjoyed quite a few snowy winters in Kansas.  Enjoyed?  Actually, he didn't really care for the snow all the much, especially not the cold that came with it.  He shortened his walks when it would get too cold outside, as well as if it was too hot.  The photo above is from a snowstorm in 2007, and the photos below are from 2011.



                                           Joey looking very dapper in his sweater



                                Joey was a great sport, ringing in 2009 with a festive hat.



                                                           With Dad in 2005



Dad and Joey on the deck in 2011 - Joey always loved following Dad around when he'd be outside doing yard work.  But his favorite activity was to be Dad's shadow while grilling on the deck.


      Joey loved "helping" with the grilling, but his biggest contribution was being underfoot.



This photo is from Thanksgiving 2010.  With everyone relaxing, I'm guessing it was after a big Thanksgiving lunch.



              Joey was a great sport when I brought Eddie home for a weekend in 2012



Joey always seemed to enjoy visiting Laura and John across town.  He'd play for short periods with their dog Felix, and spend the rest of his time begging to be pet (most often trying to sit near John).  Felix would always outrun Joey, being younger and very agile, but Joey still enjoyed their short play periods.  Mom spent Christmas with the Romines and I'm told that Joey still did some playing with Felix even though he had trouble breathing.  I'm glad to hear that Joey had a fun Christmas.



Joey was always so good with my guinea pig, Suki (aka "potato").  Being a rodent-hunting breed, I was initially concerned that I'd have to be careful that he didn't get her, but luckily he was semi-afraid of her.  Suki was blissfully unaware that Joey could easily eat her, and Joey would sniff her out sometimes and then quickly back away.  They were pretty funny to watch together.



 

Another of Joey's favorite activities was playing with his toys, particularly tennis balls.  As he aged, he would play less and less, but he never really gave it up all together.  When he was younger, he'd get really excited while playing and run figure eights around the dining room table and couch.  We called it the "Westie 500".

Joey also really enjoyed car rides.  Dad would often take him along for a trip to the bank or the store.  After shopping, Dad would take him for a circle around the block to allow Joey to enjoy the new sights and smells.  The photos above are from 2011 and 2013.



Joey loved his walks and playing, but he especially loved his naps.  He was always very happy to find a sunspot to sleep in.  If he had his way he'd sleep in the bed every night, but that only happened when I visited home.  Whenever his regular routine was disrupted, such as going to visit someone at their house, Joey enjoyed the activity and new smells.  But as he aged, he would sleep hard for 2-3 days after these visits, especially if the house had another dog that he could play with.  He certainly enjoyed his 18 hr naps everyday.  Both photos above are from 2013.


                                After being rudely awoken from a couch nap in 2012



                                           Snuggling next to my leg in 2013



                      Cuddling with the Joey the night before I left for Australia in Sept


                                 Sleeping on Mom's quilted bedspread in 2013



Joey and I got to spend some quality time together before I left for Australia in Sept.  I was in Wichita for about two weeks enjoying time with family.




Thanks to videochatting over the internet, I was able to see Joey a few times while chatting with my folks.


During an afternoon sitting-in-the-sun session earlier in Dec, Joey definitely has an old-man face.




Joey was really important to me, and I'm sad to see him go.  But in creating this post, I've had the chance to enjoy all the photos I have of Joey.  And I'm reminded that he had a long full and happy life - not all dogs are as fortunate.  I'm happy to know he had such a wonderful life.  I can only hope my future pets will be as great as Joey was.